Until yesterday everything was fine, there was no big deal on what to write but today is the real test to search what to write, I don’t want this blog to be an account of just my personal vent out sessions or my diary entries, I want it to be some more than that, something which people will enjoy reading and say “Man, That is interesting”.

So after 7 minutes of already written content I have figured out that I will write about confusions of a human head. Simple math you write what you are good at and I am writing about confusions because that is what I am right now, “A Confused Man”.

Confusions makes a person funny at times , he/she starts doing what he or she would have never thought of doing in a sane and logical head set. It’s like a jam for brain where it gets stuck on the crossroads of thoughts and every way seems to be perfectly right or all ways seem messed up. Instances of such incidents can be many, and by many I mean close to infinite. It is a funny saying in India that “jo shadi ka laadu woh pachtae aur jo na khae woh bhi pachtae” which means a person who gets married curses it and the one who doesn’t get married he also curses it, that is the irony hidden in confusion. It makes you go through a process making you feel that doing it would have been but at the same time there are 100% chances that the other path could have been the same.

This is seemed confused or what? Well it can be because I am not giving any solutions here I am just trying to tell that what works for me, what trick me come out of the confusion. So what I finally was able to conclude was it is easy to come out of the hole of confusion if only we get elevated and look at problems from an exalted vision. All it needs is INTROSPECTION, RETROSPECTION and PATIENCE… Every confusion gets solved by it but the point is we be able to do that at the right time, I am able to do it only when my friends (Ohh my dear friends, I love you guys.) hold me back from going on the wrong way named as HASTE.

I don’t know what will work for other people but there is always something for everyone, deep inside our conscious knows it too but we tame it because we know that listening to conscious can make us feel mad about ourselves so we tend to ignore the inner voice and let our HOPES, ASSUMPTIONS and ILLUSIONS live. I know it is sad but that is what we do, don’t we? The way to run out of confusions is to keep the basic right and simple, using the 3 factors mentioned above is better than talking to millions of people and getting more confused rather than getting an answer.