Category: tension

don’t know what am I going to write , don’t know what should I write , don’t know what am I writing but what I do know is , I am writing. In this very moment I am writing. This awareness is what we keep on searching all throughout in our lives

Some of us find it and many of us don’t but the point is the that the moment we find this awareness the more we get detached and we are more relaxed. The more we get rid of the worries , the stress but there is a little problems connected to the awareness which is too understand what awareness is. So let me just help you to get through this, awareness is something very simple yet we haven’t been able to save it because we are in habit of being complex. 

Awareness understands of knowing that what you want to do and not what you are supposed to do, or taught to do, or asked to do or any further suggestion. When you understand that you can be satisfied when know what you are doing or implying is you then there will be no more struggle because then you will be satisfied. You will not have to worry anymore; you not have to fight anymore because you will be satisfied with your actions. But one thing is very important here, which is stopping you to work for results. We are disappointed when we desired something else than what we expected but when there is no wishful work or result oriented action then there will be no disappointment. 

Mend y our actions towards experience rather than results , you win at times and lose at times but in both the cases ,its temporary but experience never fades in fact it motivates to make use of it ,exploit it , explore it , discover. So explore the experiences you have, discover yourself by being aware.  

Lies are Good.

Imagine, it’s 4 am in the morning, you recently had a breakup with your girlfriend and it wasn’t a really peaceful breakup. She calls you and her voice suggests, in fact affirms that she had been crying from hours. We all you human after all so you feel bad and all she asks is “Do you still love me?”, “I can’t live without you, just tell me that you love me”. 
Any sane and intelligent human being will be scared about the consequences that may come his way after he says, “Sorry, I don’t love you anymore”. You can never predict what may come your way next, a cut down nerve or a bottle of rat poison imbibed. So what would you do at that moment? Say the truth or try to console her with the lie? No doubt that 1 lie will make you go through prevarication but isn’t it better than taking away a life which was special to you at one point of time in your life.
Lies are never righteous but they are better than bitter truths at times. Many other instances can just state that how they are better but the decision lies in your hands, you can choose to kill or to save a life.